tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37071965.post3351177096312940349..comments2023-04-13T06:14:30.103-05:00Comments on The Jamaican Adventures of Mamachel: Going the DistanceThe Jamaican adventures of mamachelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15200467080277240129noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37071965.post-70986284379285434842007-02-06T09:25:00.000-06:002007-02-06T09:25:00.000-06:00Seems like my last 3 relationships were long dista...Seems like my last 3 relationships were long distance... the last being the longest and the hardest of them. The talks, the promises, the msn and the webcam (oh yes the webcam) do become monotonous after a while... and you're left to find innovative ways of bridging the gap.<br /><br />Theres not a lot you can do, because they proximity is something thats terribly important for intimacy, comfort and simply put reality!<br /><br />There are no tricks to it either, but there is one thing I do know is crucial or you'll have to take a serious look at exactly what you're doing... the two of you must have a plan!<br /><br />There has to be a destination, a time period or something to look forward too or you'll simply loose hope, and rightfully so.<br /><br />You have to set a date for when you'll next see each other, have some idea as to where the two of you will end up, or where you're both going. Your paths have to cross at some point to give your mind some comfort. And if the answer to every time you ask "when are we going to see each other".... "we'll see"... it might be time for a reality check!MCuffehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14554519227437854181noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37071965.post-1166644545489356612007-01-27T18:46:00.000-06:002007-01-27T18:46:00.000-06:00Hey there! Nice to make the acquaintance of anothe...Hey there! Nice to make the acquaintance of another Jamaican blogger!Leonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12570165135981686349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37071965.post-59593214347081326792007-01-17T12:57:00.000-06:002007-01-17T12:57:00.000-06:00I believe that long distance relationships are har...I believe that long distance relationships are hard as raas. It has to take soem serious dedication on both parts and what usually ahppen is that teh dedication falls short on one part and teh other party gets hurt and feels like a bag juice. The need for intimacy and for some bodily contact i think is extremly important..those Law and order re runs do get to you after a while. Starign at the walls and playign game boys ( thats what i do now though i am not in a long distance reltionship- it feels that way though, cuz i am as lonely as if i was in one)doesnt cut it ..after finishing mario brotehrs 3 about 5 times you will get upset. So the need for bodily contact is important... Talk to the partner and see what he says and then make the desicion if it can work..Good Luck..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com