Thursday, November 09, 2006

Mamachel See Boops deh :-)

Hey Peeps!!!

Its Mamachel once again!!! Thanks for all the comments on "strangest vibrations" I hoped to hear more from the male point of view but such is life.
This week while online a friend and I were engaged in a Msn conversation (see below). His question brought back memories....

Scene: New Kingston

Date: July 2006

I stand outside a very famous establishment waiting with bated breathe for my "blind date" to alight from his car (german made well criss with the ris and stuff). As I stood there I envisioned a handsome guy dress to the nines. Bwaay was I wrong. People, when i say wrong I mean 50 degrees to the left wrong. The guy looked like Pumba from the Lion King (not cute) dressed to the nines alright in some FUBU Gear. Being the brave chica that I am I swallowed my fear and decided to see whats on the inside plus I was hungry (why waste a dress). Fast Forward to the end of the night and this story ends with me excusing myself to the bathroom and never returning. When I called my friend that set us up to ask her WHY??!!!!!. The response I got was "my girl him have crazzzyy money, just shut yuh eye." No, No, No, that ugliness penetrate any eyelid. Safe to say Pumba never heard from me again.

Back to the present questions at hand. Is money everything? Or should we give these guys a break I mean some would say that all they did was find a way to live with the ugliness. And the women are not completely without blame. Are these women users? I personally think that sometimes a person's personality outshines any physical faults and some of these women genuinely like these men, its the ones in the FUBU gear that scare me. (joking) I would love to hear your opinion.

Curious says:
so.. me an my friends were standin outside the gym talking an chilling right

Curious says:
and we deh deh a look on some of the women them and who them role up wid and what them drive and stuff

Curious says:
so we got to talking..

Curious says:
the three of us are good looking educated, ambitious young men, weh nuh have no bonafide wife..
Curious says:
so we were thinking... u know them ugly ass man dem weh nuh have NO sense, but have a dope car, and a KRISS girl

Curious says:
and u always hear people a say "how him get dat girl..."

Curious says:
or "what she doin wid him"

Curious says:
well.. u really cant fight dem man deh... u know WHY..

Curious says:
cause dem a di f#@!z weh a spen MONEY pon di woman dem... dem a wine and dine d woman dem

Curious says:
tek dem go gym, give dem car...

Curious says:
while the good looking "educated" ambitious man dem... nah spen a ras scent

Curious says:
so realloy and truly.... is di ugly ass rich man dem a play di game right !

Mamachel says:
NO WORRIES I WILL INVESTIGATE :-)

9 comments:

Serchen said...

So i see this as the true reflection of what is taking place today, however one can play the game in your favour to have the roles reversed, its just that the task is daunting usually. But on the other hand you can find ladies who are of such beauty and stature that the "educated" guys feel intimidated to approach them, and so they turn to the guy that really has nothing to lose really. These guys will try and get through. So it is to grow a backbone and try...even if you get shot down. But hey what do I know....I'm just one a dem "educated" ambitious dudes out dere....

Iakona said...

women don't want good and secure men until they are ready to get married. until a woman is ready to get married she wants hype and all that stuff. women fail to understand that hype gets old with a quickness and before she knows it she has 2 children and/or in love and is stuck.

Anonymous said...

Well, I read the blog and the comments that were left and felt compelled to respond cause, it is all too true. One thing you must remember is that we live in a materialistic world today and it does not take an "educated" man to figure that out. In the Jamaican community money means a lot. We may not agree but it’s the facts. So hence the ugly "fubu" wearing man finds a way to surround himself with things. We must not make the mistake a envy them because “a fool and his money are soon departed”. The educated man needs to find a way to get these things too and be one step ahead of the game.

As for the females, it is not all their fault. They are caught up in the system. Many of these girls that you see in these ugly or rich man cars are there because they are looking a way out poverty. Out of their parents house. They want to shine on the girls that used to diss them up him high school. Many of these girls only have their looks going for them and they are using it to the best of their ability. Also some of these girls parents encourage this type of behavior.

So my advice to the men is go out a get yours. Once you do, start the play the game too. Weed out the bad ones find a good one and settle down and marry her. Trust me once you are educated, have some money in your pocket, and well put together they will find you. My advice to the women would be to open your eyes look at the complete package. That “bruk pocket boy” that you pass in traffic in his old car today might be a millionaire tomorrow.

DiGrifter said...

The more things change, the more they stay the same. Women have been going after men with wealth &/ power since the beginning of time. Meanwhile, men have been running down attractive women for just as long. This always *seems* to leave the average guy/gal on the sideline moaning about the stupidity of it all...

The truth is you just have to take care of yourself, and approach the person you're attracted to with confidence. Some want looks, some want money, some want personality in their potential mate (some even all 3) -- more power to them I say as long as they're happy with their choice.

However, I will *still* be making fun of the gold-diggers with their ugly ass boyfriends/husbands! ;-)

Anonymous said...

Mamachel I love your vibrations!
however to comment on UGLY
"There's a stick for every bush"
Urban chef.
www.youtube.com/jamaicantv.

Anonymous said...

Mamachel I love your vibrations!
however to comment on UGLY
"There's a stick for every bush"
Urban chef.
www.youtube.com/jamaicantv.

Kim said...

Awrite let's try to address this..somehow I feel like this is like a talk show and i'm a regular...lol.

I like Urban Chef's diagnosis..every hoe have dem tik a bush dat's what my granny would say.

She would also so say "love caan buy food a supamarkit or clothes put pon back!" Everyone's got something ugly about them...face, shape, foot, toe, lip, teeth u name it...but when a every friggin sittin pan u ugly dat serious man! Dear Lord! Who boxed you with UGLY?

1)If dem ugly and educated... Dem cocky and full a shit.
2)If dem educated and look good dem fucking gay!
3)If them rich and dunce..dem a freak and dem mout tink like shit
4)If dem rich and ugly dem picky (like dem have choice)
5)If dem ugly, educated and rich dem deh married ...an u wonda how?
6)if dem handsome, rich and educated..."Peter King" aint got shit on them!
6)If dem Ugly and dunce a dem deh bright like mawning star!
7)Di one dem who just educated...dem a still a mystery

So what I'm saying is no Money isn't everything but it is something and it means more than nothing....you feel me.

So let me ask the real question...Is good looks everything?

Put it this way wen dem ugly dem gi trouble... when dem look good dem gi trouble...Gi mi the look good rich man weh gi trouble. Mi will rerk wid dem deh u caan ugly an a cheat..but look at dem to?

Some a unu gyal too damn licky licky to...dats why nuff a unu get____! Unu lef unu self up fi libaty teking...fi unu choice dat still...my choice is clear!

Show me the perfect man please?
If ugly mek you happy den fine.
Rich, educated and handsome mek me happy ;-)

Anonymous said...

The reality is that every woman wants/needs to be satisfied somehow. Whether Money, great sex or popularity. Women need men who respects them not because of how they look but who they are. unfortunately, most men are too self centered. As a result, some women choose to find some gratification in the process of finding a man. I don't blame girls who use guys who are self centered... I blame girls who use guys who generally love them. That's my take on it.

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