Hey All,
It surprises me the things that can leave me stumped. But today I came to serious realization, "I'm not so young anymore". Now don't get it twisted in my eyes Im young fresh and green. If I must say so myself I'm still a hot tamale. However, sadly enough my male friends no longer want to hang out with me. What happened to let me realize this you may ask? Well today I was browsing through facebook and I saw that one of my friends had posted pictures of his Sunday Lyme on the boat. As I perused these photos of skimpy bikinis and jet skis it dawned on me that apart from the "men" I didn't recognize the females in the pictures. They were too young!!! I had to investigate.
I asked him how is it that the older you get the younger the girls you spar with? People, I get a answer so honest I could do nothing but appreciate it. He said "Mama the age group 24-29 looking for something serious." "Unnu want to get married and have meaningful relationships while at that age we just want the punany." "Unfortunately, its the 18-21 yr olds that will put out, and that leaves no space for you on the boat, when we have a friendship day I will invite you." Okay readers, close your mouth.. :-)
As harsh as It sounds I now understand. No matter how hot or how much of a MILF you are the younger women just have a ting that the men love. One friend tried to tell me that women aged faster than men and so there are less attractive older females in comparison to attractive older men. I beg to differ, a beer belly on a man isnt half as unattractive as a beer belly on woman. The standards for attractive men is much lower than the standards for their counterparts. A man starts to grey he's described as looking distunguished, women, fagetaboutit!! I'm just saying in all aspects of life there are double standards and all you are left with in the end is your own valued opinion of yourself. Love yuhself yaah 'cause there's no guarantee that someone else will.
I close with saying "Let them galavant on that boat with them young girls I know what Mamachel has, i know my flavour, I know my stlye and because of that I walk around with a Mona Lisa Smile"
Sexy Jamaican Bitch,
Mamachel
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
Wednesday, June 13, 2007
Finding Love Online??!!
Hey All,
I'm not new to this Internet thing. I know how to communicate and Ive been in my fair share of chat rooms. Heck, there's one that I visit daily and I've developed a friendship with other bloggers such as bronx,neopanther,luna,gksden,watchlist and others that would just fill this whole post. We all speak about different aspects of our lives and we seek and dish out advice. I recently got help with my slide show from Luna, something I've been trying to do for months. I have read their blogs and seen their pictures and they have done the same with me.
I put all of this out because in all my time in this chat room I have never received an outwardly sexual or intimate gesture. So, imagine my surprise when I join myspace and start getting loads and loads of friend requests from men who love my smile, or thinks I'm charming and would like to get to know me better. Raastafari!!! How can you tell i'm charming from my picture? Just a word to the wise "all that glitter isn't gold". And so I ask the question. Do people actually hook up on Myspace, Facebook, Hi5? Do they write each other and meet and form long and lasting relationships? Please let a sister know. All I've gotten so far are a couple marriage proposals,booty call messages, and I now have a Peruvian porn star stalking my black ass. I'm not looking for love, Mamachel already has her Bubba. Nevertheless, I'm curious, do people really hook up on these sites?
Blessed Love,
Mamachel '07
I'm not new to this Internet thing. I know how to communicate and Ive been in my fair share of chat rooms. Heck, there's one that I visit daily and I've developed a friendship with other bloggers such as bronx,neopanther,luna,gksden,watchlist and others that would just fill this whole post. We all speak about different aspects of our lives and we seek and dish out advice. I recently got help with my slide show from Luna, something I've been trying to do for months. I have read their blogs and seen their pictures and they have done the same with me.
I put all of this out because in all my time in this chat room I have never received an outwardly sexual or intimate gesture. So, imagine my surprise when I join myspace and start getting loads and loads of friend requests from men who love my smile, or thinks I'm charming and would like to get to know me better. Raastafari!!! How can you tell i'm charming from my picture? Just a word to the wise "all that glitter isn't gold". And so I ask the question. Do people actually hook up on Myspace, Facebook, Hi5? Do they write each other and meet and form long and lasting relationships? Please let a sister know. All I've gotten so far are a couple marriage proposals,booty call messages, and I now have a Peruvian porn star stalking my black ass. I'm not looking for love, Mamachel already has her Bubba. Nevertheless, I'm curious, do people really hook up on these sites?
Blessed Love,
Mamachel '07
Tuesday, June 12, 2007
Its not you Its Me...
Hey All,
A friend of mine recently went on a two minute tirade on MSN Messenger about her boyfriend. Sigh, will this man and woman story ever end?!! The answer I fear my friends is no. Now let me get into the meat of the matter. My friend (said hostile from sentence one) is involved in a long distance relationship with her boyfriend of one year. Everything has been going rosy or as mamachel likes to put it "Everything Coppa-setic". Anyways, of late (past month) he has begun to act weird towards her i.e. not texting,calling, emailing, and very dry and distant on the phone. hmmm dissa one smell fishy bad man .. sumting inna sumting. If you are wondering, yes she has confronted him about his recent behaviour and all was blamed on family problems. However, this explanation just not sitting right wid my sistren for one he refuses to explain what these "family problems" are and as a result will not discuss his feelings with her. Inevitably,my sistren is left with the lurking feeling that SHE is actually the problem and would like to know Mamachel's take on the situation.
Well, first of all mek mi seh, never ignore that little voice in your head. A woman's intuition is a very powerful thing. However, on the flip side It is very possible that he is having family problems nevertheless, his reluctance at sharing these problems is making his movements very "suspect".I know you are going to see him soon, maybe you would like to wait until you are face-to-face to confront and see his reaction. Also, I cannot say it enough "MAN CYAN READ MIND" if your feeling insecure based on his actions then you need to let him know how it is affecting you. If you guys have a talk and this behaviour continues then you really need to take a serious look at the whole relationship.
To the boyfriend if you are reading this and you know you thinking about being a real ass and giving her bun (cheating) here is some guidance "Wrestling with the Truth"
Readers I do need your help with this, Mamachel could be wrong. Let my friend and I know what you think.
Blessed Love,
Mamachel
A friend of mine recently went on a two minute tirade on MSN Messenger about her boyfriend. Sigh, will this man and woman story ever end?!! The answer I fear my friends is no. Now let me get into the meat of the matter. My friend (said hostile from sentence one) is involved in a long distance relationship with her boyfriend of one year. Everything has been going rosy or as mamachel likes to put it "Everything Coppa-setic". Anyways, of late (past month) he has begun to act weird towards her i.e. not texting,calling, emailing, and very dry and distant on the phone. hmmm dissa one smell fishy bad man .. sumting inna sumting. If you are wondering, yes she has confronted him about his recent behaviour and all was blamed on family problems. However, this explanation just not sitting right wid my sistren for one he refuses to explain what these "family problems" are and as a result will not discuss his feelings with her. Inevitably,my sistren is left with the lurking feeling that SHE is actually the problem and would like to know Mamachel's take on the situation.
Well, first of all mek mi seh, never ignore that little voice in your head. A woman's intuition is a very powerful thing. However, on the flip side It is very possible that he is having family problems nevertheless, his reluctance at sharing these problems is making his movements very "suspect".I know you are going to see him soon, maybe you would like to wait until you are face-to-face to confront and see his reaction. Also, I cannot say it enough "MAN CYAN READ MIND" if your feeling insecure based on his actions then you need to let him know how it is affecting you. If you guys have a talk and this behaviour continues then you really need to take a serious look at the whole relationship.
To the boyfriend if you are reading this and you know you thinking about being a real ass and giving her bun (cheating) here is some guidance "Wrestling with the Truth"
Readers I do need your help with this, Mamachel could be wrong. Let my friend and I know what you think.
Blessed Love,
Mamachel
Tuesday, June 05, 2007
Returning to Jamaica
The other day I received an email from an individual who wanted to know about returning to Jamaica. . I was pleased by this email as it stirred some hope in me that people are still thinking about Jamaica. Whilst there are many resources on the web I was asked personally what I thought of living here. Let me say Jamaica is a unique place and I love it. I might move to another country for awhile but my heart will always belong to this little island. This is a sentiment that most Jamaicans share. So to all those thinking of becoming returning residents have no fear, do not believe everything that you read.
What had particularly impressed me with this person was that she was a young professional something Jamaica needs more of :-)
The only thing my friend says to warn the returning ladies about is the serious lack of available men. I have included some links that I think can help you with making your decision.
Come to Jamaica and Feel Alright!!!
Blessed Love,
Mamachel
Links to Jamaica:
1. Returning From New York
2.Returning from the UK
3. Jamaica Information Service
4. Discover Jamaica
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